Lutton Files on Gentle Discipline
Grace Based Dicipline in action
quote::
"Every action has a motivation--and without motivation there is no action. Someone who feels good about themselves and about life isn't going to go around whacking people upside the head, calling names, or threatening people on the street. Someone who is doing those things doesn't feel good inside. Bullies are some of the most miserable people. " Crystal Lutton

that makes the verse "love one another as you love yourself " so much more meaningful
i was always confused at what if you hated yourself or were suicidal,were into harming yourself, or had bad self value and self esteem than how do you treat others???